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The present moment

The present moment

" The memory of happiness is not happiness; the memory of the pain is still pain. "
Lord Byron

Often I hear around me, that to be happy, you must live in the present, picking the fruits of today's life, you know the perfect "Carpe diem , "advocated by Horace. In fact, the modern reasoning tends to modify the idea developed by Horace, who proposed this solution to escape the unknown future, you do not know what tomorrow will bring, so enjoy your life today.

I have often noticed among the followers This contemporary fixed formula by the time their philosophy of life was not all the same. Under a seemingly happy spiritualist, taking the legendary letting go, it seems to be more of a technique developed to drain away the weight of a painful past, which we can not free himself.

These people failing to overcome a past that haunts are, in fact, reduced to refrain from any projection into the future, and need to find a loophole needs to live , undertake not to live at present, without looking back (which they do not want) or ahead (they can not).

In fact, we are dealing with people traumatized by painful trials, which have encapsulated in them, not having been able to sublimate and completely inhibit any attempt to project into the future, because the fear that paralyzes them.

The crash of a past, whose mourning is not done, and the prohibition of a future correction of errors are old, even liberating their oppression, are the real blinders that needed to be not, supposedly, live the present.

Taking the principle that any changes be based on the assimilation of experiences to optimize those that have still to live, it is difficult to imagine how a development could be successful while undertaking to feed on the immediacy, intersecting forward and post. There is more in the stagnant immobility in the resignation of impotence.

Could it be a house without foundations and roofless, can we design an education that is not based on the lessons of experience to learn what to do to get out the best in life .

It is imperative to digest the events that life inflicts on us to get to build a future, otherwise we are condemned to do nothing, by simply believing one is doing well. And unfortunately, many are those which, in addition to or other wise serenity now locked into a castrating forbidding them all to become and sclerosing indefinitely.

But just look where we come to understand where we are going, and this is probably the primary basis of age wise, it is not refraining from walking that we can move forward, on the contrary, and if one has stumbled, the important thing is to recover and resume its growth. We're here to draw a vital path, with its hesitations, its inflections, its correction, with its trials and rewards, successes and failures and not to hide the head in the sand just like the ostrich.

But perhaps the privilege of wisdom is to consider where we come to better manage its path to where you are going, while enjoying the fair value between the two, the moment will become history when it turns into the future, and if it was just an evanescence to perceive a true awakening to impart an existential reality that denies him the customary routine of everyday life.

And beyond that, remember that we are on our way to a dimension where time and space do more will determine our evolution, and where everything happens in the here and now but for the now we're still in the third dimension, and linear spatio-temporal ...

Meanwhile, wanting too be present to oneself, one runs the risk of being absent from his life.

"Aging is at bottom nothing other than having more afraid of his past."

Stephan Zweig

"We do not judge a man on the number of times he falls, but on the number of times he gets up."

Jigoro Kano